hmmm... actually x mood nk update.... cos really in a bad modd...
pg td, ive made my decision to tell the 'TRUTH'... ihv to do it cos in my point of view it is the best way sblm ianya melarat... sy memain kan prasaan org n sy akan dpt blsn nyer one day.... i really want to apologies.... cos deep down in my heart, i know, ive lied to myself.... but, i did it for he sake both of us...n the real reason will nvr be unfold... that means, biarlah sy sorg jer yg tau the real truth.... n biarlah sy sorg sj yg menanggung penderiataan tu... i don mind dyer pikir sy org yg mcm maner... cos sy yg mmg nk dyer pikir sy camtu... hmm... x tau nk taip aper...
btw, what is long disance relationship???
just to remind myself n to share to whomread this entry....
According to wikipedia, long distance relationship (LDR) is an intimae relatiosnhip that takes place when the partners are seperated by a considerable distance...
so, what r the challenges??
1) schedule conflict - cos different time zone
2) communicaion prob - cos reduced real-time feedback
3) need high degree of rust - cos cos parner's behaviour cannot be monitored
4) will be missing greatly - cos not seeing each other in person
tp stiap perkara ade hikmah nyer... so, hikmah LDR adalah:
1) can develop a strong sense of trust
2) learn to appreciate one another n not take each other for granted
3) the efforts that both partner put in to keep in touch, can promote a special bond... they may learn more of each other personality, value, ideas, dreams n moch more than those who spend time together everyday...
4) when they together, they appreciate more that moment...
so, ni ade beberape tips dor a good LTR:
1) pursue common interest
2) avoid the temptation to be controlling
3) alk about the future
4) avoid jelousy
5) be trusting
6) create ur own set of relationship standards
7) agree on he activiteis that u can do together at he same time ur apart...
thats all for now... no pic for this entry... ur maybe u want to c my emo face... IN UR FACE!!!! wakakka... (dh x der mende nk taip)
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hey dude.we're practically on the same boat.its stinks being into a long and distanced relationship.its tough indeed but we juz hv to except the truth.the challenges like u mention is so so true.haiz its juz so emotional.i think i'm in a more terrible condition,*being ignored and abandoned*.i jus sometimes wonder y me?
ReplyDeleteur loved one didnt do it on purposedly... cos every fucking day i heard that he loves u very much... he even hold n kiss the small square pillow (i guess its urs).. but that was b4 u become very annoying (sorry to say this).. u didnt trust him at all... n sometimes he also need time n space for himself... yeah.. we r very bz here... dyer ckp dyer bz bkn nyer dyer main2... its the fact!! but, i guess u love him very much n u r afraid to lose him... n thats y suddently u become very annoying person(sorry again)..
ReplyDeleteanyway, right now he is in a tip top health n still in good condition.. so, quit worrying so much... just follow where time will bring all of us... n go wih the flow...
u r being so sarcastic rite here,ok fine then
ReplyDeletewell, if u take it that way, i cannot say anything... cos i just tell the truth n sometime the truth is really pain to bear cos we live in reality...
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